Over the last few weeks I’ve been on a few dates and no matter what I do it’s always the same results. It always goes like this
Attempt to talk to someone on line
Every now and again something happens and we end up chatting
Exchange a few nice messages on said dating app
Move to whats app messenger
Both sides seem to get excited about meeting up
Quick phone call
The ending is always the same. Usually. Youre really nice and funny. You’re a nice guy but I dont see us going anywhere / not attracted to you.
Nice…. that’s a word that I’m starting to hate but I realise that it isnt just about that word but about the whole thing is about. Sure this sounds like a grizzled fat lad whos a little bitter that once again yet another date works out.
But the kicker is all it makes me do is think of Lynette where getting on was easy (sort off), there was a click. So recently being dumped by her due to a hard week followed by
* taking time to work out what I want
* im holding you back from what you want
has really wound me up.
Stilll today is friday. Sunday I am off to cycle the Wales velo so what better time to get a kick to the balls with a quick afternoon lunch date. Todays ball kicker is Bek ( I think), 35, mother of one and self employed.
With this one we’ve not done a phone call nor even swapped pics so that doesn’t bode well. If we exchange maybe two texts a day then that’s a max but she does say in her profile she doesnt want anyone who will get “affended when I dont text back straight away”
How will I get blown out prediction.
With this one it’ll be a few hours after we met or
2 days with nothing. That will be blamed on a busy weekend etc etc etc.
Update you in a few hours.